We can learn and study. Thus the society inserts conventional programs to our heads and installs them step by step, if we resort to the programming jargon. In this context, we talked about certain deviant patterns that shape us at the macrolevel. But the socialization does have a microlevel. It means our response to certain experiences. We shall say, first of all that most of such response is “automated”. For instance, going to work we know in advance the way to it, when the bus comes, how to pay the fare and many other things we really think about, but not much unless there’s a violation of the routine, such as traffic jams, abnormal weather conditions and alike. The automation is conditional, which we can understand, if make a small experiment in our imagination. Assumed we go on a business trip to an unknown city with a different transport system, ways to pay for the fare road signs (for example, not similar to the ones in Europe and the USA). If the peculiarities are insignificant, they may surprise us. However, if the situation is totally different from we see every day around ourselves, we may be stressed for the first time and have to adjust to a new routine. Another feature of “automated” behavior. In our Eastern Slavonic communication culture such questions as “How’s your life?” “How are the things?” that require at least formal answers unlike the English “How are you?” Besides, the Russian etiquette may suggest that a mere “OK” or “as always” as answers can be a sign of being reluctant to continue the conversation or ignoring the interlocutor. On the other hand, quite often there’s no universal answer to such questions. It means we live in the world of automated behavior, which is a problem for our mind whether we understand it or not.

